Learning Family in Cairo

Walking around Cairo, 20 Jan - 30 Jan, 1999

Egypt is much more than just the pyramids and mummies. Sure we went to learn about ancient civilizations, and there are amazing monuments to powerful leaders all over Egypt. But some of the best monuments to a culture are the everyday people. We found that life in Cairo is quite interesting, too, and spent a lot of time just wandering around, observing how Cairenes live.

Harrison and Amanda are standing with Uncle Jon and his friend Mohammed, who runs a little candy store around the corner from their apartment. Mohammed was super friendly to us, and even invited us to his apartment for some Ramadan treats. His whole family sat with us while we tried to learn the Arabic alphabet. Someday, Mohammed wants to own a big store of his own.

Some of our best memories of our time in Egypt are the people we met. Jon and Tanalee have a favorite fatherly taxi driver who drove us several days. After being with us most of our first day, he took us to his home to have tea and "kak" (holiday cookies) and to meet his wife and three teenage children. Even though we couldn't converse, we felt such warmth from them that we will never forget the hospitality and interest shown to us by this Egyptian family.

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Cairo, Face-to-face

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When Egyptian children see a foreigner who looks Anglo-American they can't resist asking a question in English. The most common queries are "What's you name?", "Where you from?", "Do you have the time?", "Money?", or simply a greeting of "Welcome to Cairo" (or the surprising "Welcome to Alaska" that we heard in Luxor). Americans are also targets for peddlers of all sorts, who start by placing an object (headband, knick-knack, etc.) in your hand and saying "a gift for you!" before you have a chance to tell them you aren't interested. Then you spend five minutes trying to get the guy to take it back, while he tells you all the reasons you need to buy it. In hind sight though, I wish I would have bought more trinkets from them. They could have really used my money, things were so cheap, and I would have had more gifts to give friends and family.

Karam, our cab driver, is more like a father-figure to Jon and Tanalee. He took us everywhere in Cairo, and even invited us to his family's home one day. He took very good care of us everywhere we went.

Our tour guide and his daughter at the Blue Mosque in Old Cairo. He led us up the winding stairs to the top of the minaret (spire), carrying Harrison or Amanda most of the way on the dark, twisting journey.

Mohammed's snack store is barely bigger than a walk-in closet, but he has a steady stream of customers buying cold drinks, candy and chips. His smile is infectious as he greets each one.

Our first encounter with a camel was at Saqqara on our first day. "Sam" the camel and his driver were a fun welcome to Egypt.

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Cairo (Cities of the world series) by R. Conrad Stein,

Sights and Sounds

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Buildings around Cairo were "interesting." We noticed a common construction technique used in most homes and apartment buildings in Cairo. (We discovered later that the same basic style is also in Greece and Italy, but it was new to us.) They start with a reinforced cement framework grid which is then filled in with bricks. This can be added onto vertically, one story at a time, which we observed happening in many locations. It seemed that most building were being constantly added onto. This method of construction creates very flat roofs, which sometimes become living space as well. We saw families living on the tops of apartment buildling in cardboard and wood shelters. In new buildings you can tell the difference between the color of the cement and the red bricks, but as pollution does its number, they both become the same smog hue.

City Scenes

Overlooking the Nile.

Cairo tower on the island of Zamelek.

Cairo is a metropolis with something happening everywhere you turn.

Harrison fakes a drink at this public "drinking fountain". One of the most surprising sights to us was watching people share the same water containers. It's not uncommon for someone to ask a complete stranger for a drink from his personal water bottle, and to be obliged.

Jonathan and Tanalee live in an area where many embassies are located, so guards and police are a common sight. There are also machine-gunned men everywhere at the popular tourist spots.

There was always something interesting to see or here throughout our stay in Egypt. From Jon and Tan's apartment we could here the call to prayer sung over loud speakers every few hours (even the 5:00 am sessions when we had jet-lag and couldn't sleep), and the roar of the hundreds of voices praying in unison. There was also the construction noises as their apartment building was being worked on. Chunks of plaster falling from the stories above and hitting their ground-floor patio and AC/heater units was among the most annoying. Right up there with the constant honking of cars.

Images of Islam

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 Mosques define the skyline. Generally, each mosque has a story to tell, often of a martyr or noble. (Blue Mosque, Cairo)

Tanalee & Amanda reach the top of the minaret at the Blue Mosque in Old Cairo.

Mosque of Abu el'Haggag at night, inside the Luxor Temple. Built during the 13th century in the court of Ramesses II, this mosque was installed right on top of the interior walls of the temple.

Muslims pray five times a day, wherever they are. The "muezzin" of each neighborhood mosque calls everyone to prayer by singing over a loud speaker. The worshippers wash themselves, then face Mecca and chant their prayers as they kneel, bow and clap their hands together.

We saw a man praying amid chaos at the Solar Boat Museum at Giza. He worked at a small gift shop and stepped to an uncrowded corner and laid a small rug on the floor. He removed his shoes and socks before kneeling on it. There was also a man working at a street corner kiosk that used a piece of cardboard as his prayer rug, right there on the sidewalk.

Most Egyptians are Muslim, but about ten percent are Coptic Orthodox Christians. The first converts date from 45 AD. The Copts are separate from the Vatican and have their own pope, chosen from the monks of Wadi Natrun.

These pictures are of the Church of Saint George in Coptic Cairo, the only round church in Egypt. It was built in 1904 after the original building, dating back to the tenth century, was destroyed in a fire. The original (and this one) are built on top of an old Roman garrison tower, thus the round shape.

Old Cairo

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Stores

The section of Cairo called Khan al' Khalili is souvenir headquarters of the city. The streets are filled with shops selling everything from figurines carved from stone to T-shirts with hieroglyphs on them, from fancy perfume bottles to papyrus bookmarks, from prayer beads to necklaces that hold a grain of rice with your name printed on it.

The shops are packed to the brim, with displays crowding the front windows. Often there is little else in the store--it's all out front, vying for customer attention.

Colorful fruit stands caught our eye. The bright colors of the fruit are a stark contrast to the desert color of the streets and buildings.

Tanalee recognized this pile of cream-colored "rocks" as chewing wax. It was heaped on a table in an alley of outdoor shops in Khan el-Khalili. The woman wrapped the amount we chose in a piece of used paper she ripped out of a notebook, with her dirty-looking hands. When Tan asked how much it cost, the woman answered "pay what you want." Not all of us were brave enough to try chewing it.

As we walked through a humble street in Old Cairo, we passed a shop baking "aishbaladi", a traditional flat bread. We were intruiged with the process and stopped to watch the converyor-belt oven. One of the men handed the kids each a piece, hot from the oven, and wouldn't let us pay for them. We bought some for the rest of us and enjoyed our inexpensive, nourishing (though slightly gritty) warm lunch as we walked to Coptic Cairo.

This sidewalk store in Luxor was selling spices, nuts and hybiscus petals for tea. The hybiscus was piled high in big baskets and birds seemed to enjoy hanging out on the mounds.

Domestic life

This small table is actually a store in the middle of Old-Cairo, where an estimated one million people live. The sheep clearly belonged to the man seated. His daughter came out to talk with him as we passed. We could only wonder what the sheep were for; for wool? for milk? for meat? for pets? We also saw many chickens wandering about the streets.

laundry day in old Cairo. The clothes are hung out to dry, but there's no fresh spring scent. At this point, we really began to feel inequalities of modern life.

It's always amazing to see people carrying big loads on their heads. These women in Luxor are balancing laundry.

A scene from the island of Zamelek where Jon and Tanalee live; another example of the contrasts in a big city. Zamelek is one of the more affluent areas of Cairo.

Only men are welcomed at most coffee houses, where they sit and chat while smoking an apple/tobacco mixture from water-filled pipes called shisha.

One example of a window designed to conceal the woman of the house. It allows her to see out while keeping others from looking in.

Life on the Nile

Life in Egypt has always centered around the cycles of the Nile. The Nileometer (Nile meter) was used from ancient times to measure the depth of the river to predict and prepare for flooding or drought. Crop yeilds were predicted and taxes were set according to the river's level in August. The Nilometer was no longer needed after the Aswan High Dam was built to control the flooding of the Nile.

Women in full head-to-toe dress were in the Nile up to their waists doing laundry. There will be no more complaints about piles of dirty clothes at the Reiser house!

We saw women scrubbing pots and pan at the edge of the Nile. Seeing something like this makes you really appreciate indoor plumming, water heaters, sinks and dishwashers.

This family was fishing on the Nile--probably not for fun.

Getting around

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Getting around Cairo was always an adventure. Taxi rides can be down right scary, but looking out at all the other vehicles, carts, women with covered heads and veiled faces, children dodging cars to cross busy streets, traffic cops in the middle of the chaos, trying to give some needed direction, the smell of car exhaust--all these served to distract us enough to not focus on the risk we were taking just going across town (seat belts were nearly non-existant). I was surprised when Karam, our very friendly and safe taxi driver, was boxed in by another car that parked too close, and just pushed it back with his cab so he could get out. And at night, drivers only turn on their lights occassionally (we never quite figured out what criteria they use to decide when). It was a little unnerving, to say the least. We were glad to have Karam, our careful and courteous driver.

The Cairo metro was the first built in the Arab world and is a very effecient, surprisingly clean system.

It's common in Cairo to see carts pulled by donkeys as part of the crazy traffic that also includes kids in backs of pick-up trucks, van doors wide open, whole families on scooters, buses with people hanging out the doors, all amid constant honking and near total disregard for traffic rules and lane lines.

We had a fun diversion from walking (and walking, and walking) when we took a Calesh ride between Karnak & Luxor. One of the carriages had pictures of the driver's family decorating the inside.

There is no minimum age for driving a donkey cart. (Karnak)

 

We took a ride on a camel. It's a one-of-a-kind experience, but we were glad that we didn't have to travel very far.

The most terrifying and miserable experience we had during the whole seven week tour were our 10-hour bus rides from Cairo to Luxor and back. Jon had tried for days to get us train tickets, but with school out, everything was booked. We were stuck with the overnight "luxury bus." More like "uncomfortable confinement", with absolutely no leg room and every chair filled (and a few standing at times), chain smokers all around us, chilly fans blowing, frequent stops to let off and pick up passengers, and constant noise from 8pm to 4am (LOUD, hyper Arabic music, honking, Muezzin singing, Egyptian movies with belly dancing, shisha smoking and women being slapping). Earplugs didn't even do much good. Sleep alluded the adults, while the kids caught some Z's. Add on top of this a driver that thought he was in a sports car instead of a high-rise bus, and you have the "bus ride from hell". We sped through the night ,with no headlights most of the time, passing everything in sight, driving on the wrong side of the road at times, cutting everything close, stopping short, you name it. We were writing the obituaries in our heads as we journeyed toward our demise somewhere in Egypt. We were all amazed and relieved (especially our backsides) when we were able to escape the torture chamber and find a hotel or apartment to collapse into for a few hours.

Children at Play

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Many children asked for "bonboni" (candy), and Jon usually carried some for this purpose. Have you ever seen sharks feeding? Hand out one tiny piece and you are instantly attacked by dozens of eager hands, each trying to grab what they can. I had a handful of U.S. pennies that I gave out to some boys who were selling carved stone figurines on the West Bank at Luxor. We were getting onto our boat to head back after a long day at the Valley of the Kings, and as we pulled away from the shore, there were kids in the water, asking for more pennies! You can't really blame them, though.

Kids in every culture have a way of finding fun, no matter what their surroundings may be. These kids are playing in a stairway.

We couldn't figure out if this little girl was playing hide and seek or being disciplined as she sat in this tiny space under an outdoor counter at her daddy's candy and toy store in Old Cairo.

These children were having a kick ball game in one of the busiest areas of downtown Cairo, Khan el-Khalili.

From the top of the Blue Mosque we spied this group playing soccer.

Food

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Other things I noticed, besides the quantities of dogs and cats and garbage nearly everywhere, were the abundance of American restaurants that popped up during our invigorating taxi rides. Places like Little Caesar's, TGIFridays, Subway, Pizza Hut, Arby's, KFC, Chili's and Domino's, and of course, McD's.

We opted for the native cuisine as often as possible, and were entertained by some of the menu choices while we ate our tasty dishes. Some we didn't dare order were the many varieties of liver entrees and the delicacy of grilled sheep scrotum. One of our favorite meals was also one of the cheapest and most popular Egyptian fast foods--kushari. It's a mixture of macaroni, rice and lentils in a spiced tomato sauce, topped with crispy fried onions. Yummy! We also discovered an interesting flavor of potato chip--chili and lemon. To me it was the "taste of Egypt". We brought some home to share at our open house, as well as a box is Asalika, a molasses candy reminicient of "Bit-o-Honey", from Mohammed's store.

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Egyptian Cooking - A Practical Guide by Samia Abdennour
Susan has made some great dishes that taste like the real thing, including Kushari.

Susan's living in Cairo report

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I have a tendancy to notice strange things when I'm in new surroundings. Some of the things that caught my attention in Egypt were stuff like toilet paper. First of all, most public bathrooms don't have any. Second, if they do, you have to pay an attendant who unwinds a bit from a roll and hands it to you. Third, the T.P. Jon and Tan buy at a neighborhood store is exactly the same stuff as their paper towels, just cut into smaller rolls. And the end of the paper is glued so well that by the time you get the roll going smoothly, it's half gone.

We used some frightening toilets in Egypt and became quite adept at not touching ANYTHING and steering clear of the little tushy washer pipe that sticks up right in the wrong place on nearly all potties. And we had to pay for this most of the time!

The worst bathrooms had to be the ones on the buses to and from Luxor. They didn't flush! They just kept getting fuller and fuller and fuller as the 10 hours went by. Rob was the only one who made it the whole way without having to endure a visit to the W.C. on wheels (and Jon, who jumped out at a few of the frequent stops and found a secluded spot. . .).

There was one particular day that comes to mind when talking about bathroom experiences in Egypt. It began with the toilet overflowing in the morning. Jon got the apartment maintenance guy to come fix it, and he dug in with his bare hands (literally!). Next, Rob was out at an Internet cafe checking e-mail when nature called (he'd made the mistake of drinking the water). There was no T.P. in the bathroom, as usual, and he had to use faka (Egyptian paper money in very small denominations) instead. Then we all went out to observe the Friday praying in the streets, and Amanda made foot contact with one of the many dog leavings on the sidewalks of Zamelek. If that weren't enough, when we got back to the apartment, Jon brought in his laundry from the patio and discovered that a bird had left its mark on one of his shirts. That was one crappy day!

Egypt is a great place to visit, don't let this report scare you. Just remember this bit of very practical advice, "take your own toilet paper and lots of small bills everywhere."

Laundry on the road

Jon and Tan's apartment came with a clothes washer, of sorts. It's about the size and shape of an outdoor garbage can and simply spins the clothes in one direction, after you fill it by hand at the tub. Then you drain it into the toilet from a small hose near the bottom, untangle your clothes, rinse and wring them by hand, and hang them to dry. After two loads this way, we opted for the rather inexpensive laundry service around the corner!

Rob

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Cairo (Cities of the world series) by R. Conrad Stein, Grolier Children's Press
What is it like to live in Cairo today?  We think this is perhaps the best introduction to modern Cairo  for children.  We read a part each morning together.

Egyptian Cooking - A Practical Guide by Samia Abdennour
Susan has made some great dishes that taste like the real thing, including Kushari. As authentic as you can get, with recipes that add realism to your culture study.